What do you do when someone behaves very rudely towards you?
- Get upset
- React rudely back
- Get frustrated
- Run away and avoid the person or situation
- Blame the person
- Preach to the person
None of these will in any way strengthen you. Then what are the options? See rude behaviour in this light:
- It indicates the intensity of their commitment
- It indicates their stress and insensitivity
- It projects the upbringing of the person
- It shows a behavioural pattern
- It shows lack of knowledge
- It shows lack of observation of the mind and its sensations
- It shows you behaviour to avoid
- It is an opportunity for you to welcome and absorb the rudeness
- It strengthens your mind
- It reveals the love that you are as unconditional
The next time when someone is rude to you, just give back a broad smile. If you can digest their rudeness, nothing whatsoever can shake you.
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