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How to deal with rude behaviour

What do you do when someone behaves very rudely towards you?
  • Get upset
  • React rudely back
  • Get frustrated
  • Run away and avoid the person or situation
  • Blame the person
  • Preach to the person
None of these will in any way strengthen you. Then what are the options? See rude behaviour in this light:
  • It indicates the intensity of their commitment
  • It indicates their stress and insensitivity
  • It projects the upbringing of the person
  • It shows a behavioural pattern
  • It shows lack of knowledge
  • It shows lack of observation of the mind and its sensations
  • It shows you behaviour to avoid
  • It is an opportunity for you to welcome and absorb the rudeness
  • It strengthens your mind
  • It reveals the love that you are as unconditional
The next time when someone is rude to you, just give back a broad smile. If you can digest their rudeness, nothing whatsoever can shake you.

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